Notes on the post below

This was the first 4 hour stretch she has slept since we brought her home from the hospital. Usually she’s up at least three times before Casey takes over. I’m actually shocked at the amount of sleep I got in the last 24 hours and in good blocks too. Believe me this is rare and hopefully a sign of things to come!

I’ve actually dropped 1-2 pumping sessions in the last week since I’ve been given the OK to nurse more. Casey helped with some of the feedings and changings – I didn’t do it all but was trying to provide an idea as to how often she’s eating/sleeping.

I was able to get a shower today. This doesn’t happen everyday but was nice to be able to have that as part of this post.

I noticed that I only put that I was online during certain times. Those that know me, know that my laptop is on pretty much the entire time I’m awake except for those periods when Brady’s actively being fed or I obviously can’t be on the computer and say doing the dishes at the same time. I need to get someone to take a picture of our typical family situation – Casey and I at opposite ends of the couch with our laptops, one of us holding Brady, and both the dogs between us. We only have room for one more baby and that’s a few years away. Our couch can’t hold anymore!

Last Thursday was another big to-do accomplished…I actually got our Christmas tree taken down and put back in the basement! We had the idea in our head we were going to keep it up and take belated family Christmas pictures. Well one thing led to another and we just never got around to it and March is just way too belated and we got over the idea.

Well, I think that’s all I wanted to add. Meow.

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Day in the life

Inspired by an emailed suggestion, this post is going to be a sort of day in the life post. Although every day varies somewhat this kind of gives you the framework of my day. All times are rounded to the nearest 15 minutes. Brady is 11 weeks old today.

0030 – Fully swaddle, turn on womb bear and Brady is finally asleep.

0430 – Wimpers and starts grunting louder. Change diaper. Feed Brady.

0530 – Brady back in bassinet asleep. Pump and read book.

0600 – Take milk downstairs and bag, wash pump parts and whatever bottles are still in the sink, water plant upstairs, get meat out to thaw for dinner.

0630 – Go back to sleep

0830 – Change diaper, feed Brady

0845 – Brady sleeping

0900 – Casey’s work call gets canceled and he comes up to get Brady while I get uninterrupted sleep.

1130 – Wake up, eat, Casey feeds and changes Brady – she takes almost 4 ounces.

1145 – Pump.

1215 – Brady sleeping, bag milk, put individual bags in large Ziplok to organize freezer, pull oldest frozen milk bags to thaw for bottles. Sterilize pump tubing and parts (weekly thing). Wash dishes, clean bottles, fortify milk and bottle up for next 24 hours (big girl – 3.5oz bottles), . Leave message with oxygen company to see if they’ve received doctor’s orders for overnight oxygen test on brady – they still haven’t, call doctor’s office again who confirms they faxed last thursday but will refax. Oxygen company calls back to say will be out here tomorrow to drop off pulse oximeter.

1300 – Feed Brady and she falls asleep while holding, go online

1400 – Pump.

1430 – Bag milk, take Stoli to check the mail (the dogs alternate days checking the mail.), wash pump parts and dishes in sink, eat lunch, take out trash.

1515 – Change Brady’s diaper, tummy time (she didn’t roll over again this time), use aspirator on her nose.

1530 – Give Brady her vitamins, feed her, change diaper, hange outfit (she peed on it), apply Nistatin to neck (she gets neck cheese in her rolls) to dry it out

1615 – Brady sleeping, pump, go online

1645 – Bag milk, wash pump parts and dishes in sink, feed and water dogs

1700 – Take shower and get dressed

1745 – Clean dog faces and ears, watch TiVo

1900 – Watch TiVo, eat, feed Brady

1930 – Brady sleeping, pump, watch TiVo

2030 – Change diaper, feed Brady, bake cookies, wash pump parts, make bottles from thawed milk

2100 – Watch TiVo (which since rebooting from within TiVo it’s been working as good as new!)

2200 – Feed Brady

2230 – Brady sleeping, get ready for bed, do dinner dishes, water downstairs plants, feed and water dogs

2300 – Brady wakes up, eats a little more, fusses, change her diaper, try to get her to sleep

2345 – Brady finally asleep, pump

0015 – Bag milk, clean pump parts, make this blog post

0030 – Go to sleep

I think her total sleep time in the last 24 hours is between 15-16 hours. As is normal, Brady’s sleeping and eating amounts seem to vary from day to day but her eating seems to be increasing as her sleeping decreases.

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Rolling

Brady hates tummy time. I told the pedi this and she said even so, it’s still necessary to do a minimum of 5 minutes a day. Now that it’s past her due date, lying on our chest no longer counts. So today during time she was fussing again and she rolled herself over! Afterwards she was a little stunned by what happened and momentarily relieved to return to her back. This was at the end of the 5 minutes so I picked her up and praised her. We’ll see if she can do it again tomorrow or if it was just a fluke…

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Forgot

I forgot to post this little tidbit last week but thought it might be interesting to some of you. In the 4 weeks since Brady was home (as of last Thurdsay, now it’s been 5), she went through 251 diapers. I guess the average baby goes through 200-300 diapers their first month home so she was pretty much in the middle of the road. My mom said her first month home with me I went through 400 diapers! Once all of these newborn diapers are gone, I’m pretty confident Brady will be ready for size 1! She’s getting so big!

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2 months

Well actually 10 weeks.  But Brady did have her 2 month doctor’s appointment yesterday.  We got all of her measurements and her shots.  The good news first.  Brady is knocking on the door of 8 pounds!  The pedi wants her to gain 1/2 to 1 ounce a day and it had been 21 days since her last appointment.  Best case scenario the pedi was expecting Brady to gain 21 ounces – she gained 26 ounces bringing her to a grand total of 7 pounds 15.5 ounces!!!  She probably would have weighed even more but didn’t eat a full bottle before we left.  And she’s up to 20.5 inches long!  Now I mentioned in an earlier post that because she was born premature she would be on an adjusted development chart since being born early doesn’t mean she would grow any faster.  So based on her gestational age of 1 week old her height and weight she’s in the 75th percentile!  This means that 75% of babies are smaller than she is.  Based on her actual/chronological age she is only in the 3rd percentile for height and weight.  This is because she was so tiny when she was born and her height and weight don’t even show up on growth charts.  The pedi is still sticking by her statement that sometime between 6 months and 2 years she’ll start falling in a more normal range on the growth charts.  Hopefully sooner rather than later at her current rate!

Now the bad news.  Brady got her 2 month vaccinations yesterday.  While the pedi had told us at her last appointment this meant only one shot and one oral vaccination (Rotavirus to prevent against viral infections), it ended up being 3 shots and then the oral.  At Robin’s suggestion, I gave her some Tylenol before her appointment but all of those shots in her little thighs was still pretty traumatic for both of us.  She did really well and other than crying immediately afterwards and until I got her dressed she did really well until later in the evening when she had a meltdown.  I think the stress of the day just got to her and she bawled and bawled.  I started crying just listening to her.  When she woke up for her 3am feeding she was back to herself and you wouldn’t have even known she had shots.  I gave her some more Tylenol just to make her feel comfortable and so she could go back to sleep (the pedi said giving her Tylenol for 24-48 hours was fine) but it didn’t seem like she needed it.

After that, I was planning on holding off on her next dose until closer to time for her Synagis (RSV) shot.  The nurse came as scheduled and was really nice about everything.  She is a former employee of the hospital where Brady was born and I used to work and was very personable.  Everything went very smoothly and Brady only ended up crying for less than 30 seconds afterwards.  I gave her a little dribble of sugar water on her tongue (advocated by the NICU and the Washington Post) but other than that I hadn’t given her any Tylenol again since her last dose and she did so well!  Once the nurse left we decided that since it was pretty nice outside today (about 67) we would take Brady for her first walk.  I asked the pedi about this yesterday and she said it was fine since we wouldn’t be around other people that could possibly get her sick and that now was the perfect time with the “heatwave” we’re having.  Brady ended up falling asleep promptly after we left the house but we still enjoyed getting out of the house and I know the dogs did too!

That’s about all that’s been going on with us right now.  Enjoy these recent pics!

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Hosting?

So our hosting for this site is coming due in less than one month. We have been with ICDSoft for quite a few years now, but I think we can do better than 4.80 a month for only 1GB of storage. Justin mentioned that they use GoDaddy, and after reviewing their plans we can get 10GB of storage for 4.50 a month. A minor savings but 10 times the storage. And perhaps since GoDaddy is hosted in TX(?) my backend management connection may be faster than routing to China or wherever ICDSoft is located. So probably sometime in the coming week I’m going to set that up and attempt to migrate our WordPress platform and database. Luckily I have been sending nightly backups of our WordPress database to my gmail account, so should make importing into a fresh install quite a bit easier.

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D-Day

The day has finally come.  Brady’s due date!  I can’t even imagine her just now arriving or maybe me going over my due date and her not being here yet.  Because she was a preemie for the next 6-12 months doctors will be using her gestational age (starting from today) to calculate milestones.  Just because she was born early doesn’t mean that she’ll start maturing any faster so in order to measure her growth the doctor will look at both chronological age and gestational to see how she’s measuring up.  For example, when Brady goes to her 2 month appointment next week the doctor isn’t going to expect much in the way of development since her adjusted gestational age will only be one week.  However, so we’re able to determine if she’s on track to developing along with those of her chronological age the doctor will also look at things she can or can’t do that a 2 month old would be able to.  I honestly don’t think we’ll have to adjust her age much or for very long she’s doing so well!

Brady had another ophthalmologist appointment today.  This appointment was *much* better than the last one.  The doctor said the vessels in her eyes have entered into zone 3, the outter most zone of the eye.  They haven’t gotten all the way to the edge yet but the doctor seems confident that it’ll happen soon.  At this point there is no cause for concern and issues will not require treatment.  The doctor is still saying that Brady’s nearsighted (which aren’t all babies?) but we won’t need to address that in more detail until she’s more mobile at around a year old.  Brady won’t have her next follow up appointment for 6 more months just to make sure that the vessels have finished their journey and no other issues have cropped up.

Enjoy these pics of Brady from the last three days – Sunday – 2 month birthday, Monday – 9 weeks old, Tuesday – due date!

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Synagis

Thursday we received a call from the pharmacy that our insurance uses regarding Brady’s synagis (RSV) shot. They wanted to let us know they were shipping it overnight and that we needed to be home when it arrived because it had to be refrigerated ASAP. So Friday the shot arrives and we get everything refrigerated and call the nursing association that’s supposed to come by and give Brady the shot, well she doesn’t plan on coming out till next Friday. If they don’t plan on giving her the shot for a week, can you please tell me the rationale in overnighting something that’s going to sit in our fridge for a week? Why not overnight it on Wednesday for Thursday at the very earliest? It makes me a little nervous having a shot that the NICU told us costs $1,000 a vial sitting in our fridge. A better question yet, is why did our insurance decide that they would rather have the shot sent to us and have a visiting nurse come by than have us go to the pediatrician? So it seems this will be the monthly routine (the shots only last 28-30 days) through April for the RSV shots.

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The HP Way

We have decided to further variablize our cost structure by reducing base pay and some benefits across HP.  My base pay will be reduced by 20 percent. The base pay of Executive Council members will be reduced by 15 percent.  The base pay of other executives will be reduced by 10 percent.  The base pay of all other exempt employees will be reduced by 5 percent.  For non-exempt employees, base pay will be reduced by two-and-a-half percent.  Additional efficiencies, including changes to the US 401(k) plan and the share ownership plan, will also be implemented.  Of course, the implementation of all of these actions is subject to compliance with local laws and regulations.  Follow-up communications will detail the timing and the plans in your location.

Special thanks to Mark Hurd to making this all possible.

Hewlett-Packard gave its boss, Mark Hurd, $25.4 million in cash last year, including a $1.45 million salary and $23.9 million in bonus money, according to compensation figures contained in the company’s proxy which it filed late on Inauguration Day.

Poor Mark looks like he will only make $1.16 Million dollars this year, oh but don’t forget his bonus…

Fuck this place, its bullshit, I’m out of here.

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Growth Spurt?

For the last two days Brady has been drinking full (2 ounce) bottles at every feeding except in the middle of the night. Then today she was sleeping a little bit more than normal. It would seem she’s going through a growth spurt.

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