Biting the bullet

To catch up this is going to be another bulleted post.

  • My grandma’s visit from Florida came and went super fast.  She was here a week and we had a good time visiting.  I know she really enjoyed spending time with Brady and is going to miss her tons!  Granny did buy Brady a sock monkey (which Brady absolutely loves) and a Baby Einstein DVD (which she isn’t entirely into yet, is it because we got the signing one?) before she left! Brady already has Granny wrapped around her finger!
  • Brady her 6 month appointment on the 24th.  She weighed in at 15 pounds 15.5 ounces (50th percentile), 24.5″ in length (only 1/2″ from 50th percentile so we’ll say 40ish percentile), and head was 50th percentile but I don’t remember the exact number.  She also got more shots while she was in but fortunately Robin told me that at her next appointment (9 months) that she doesn’t get shots!  Woo hoo!  Here’s hoping we can make it that long without a visit in between!  Her doctor said her head shape is looking great and we don’t need to worry about it as much anymore since she turns her head at will during the night (with a bald spot to prove it).  She was amazed at how well she was doing with hitting developmental milestones and said it’s really hard to believe she’s a preemie.  I mentioned how she stopped rolling over and what she does during tummy time along with her increased need to stand and the pediatrician thinks it’s possible she’ll skip over crawling and go straight to walking!
  • She had physical therapy (PT) on Friday.  The therapist asked me a ton of questions about Brady and then evaluated her using different exercises.  She did some calculations and produced a score saying that based on her adjusted age (based on her due date) of 4 months that she was in the 0.01 percentile for development.  According to the score and her skills, the therapist said Brady was at the level of someone 3 months and 20 days.  While I know Brady hasn’t hit all the milestones of a 6 month old, I find it hard to believe that she is that far behind or scoring so low.  Especially since her pediatrician is so pleased with her development and has seen her way more.  Not to mention (1) she doesn’t do so well around strangers, (2) she’s a baby and isn’t always going to perform tricks at will, and (3) was doing some of the exercises just not exactly what the therapist wanted.  Like she was testing Brady’s grasping/reaching skills and pulled out what looked like a cookie cutter (ring) on a string and Brady was sort of half-heartedly reaching for it.  Well while the therapist was documenting this, I pulled out Brady’s bug (buggy) toy that lights up and makes noise and she was reaching out for that.  I pointed this out for the therapist and she tried having her grab the other toy again and Brady wanted the buggy.  Well based on everything at the 1.5 hour appointment, she said Brady was on the cusp and she said she’d allow me to make the decision as to how I wanted to proceed.  She’d either allow me to do at home therapy using a bunch of exercises she dictated or have Brady come in for an hour a week of therapy with her.  She said at home therapy works as long as the parent is able to stick with it.  That it’s like an adult working out on their own every day or hard core with a personal trainer (her) once a week.  So we’re doing the at home therapy and in 2 months she wants me to schedule another visit to have Brady reevaluated and see if she’s making any progress.  Casey thinks this is all a scam to get us in there every week and that a baby is going to deveop at their own pace no matter what we do.  He’s supportive of me doing the exercises with Brady but doesn’t think there’s anything wrong and this place is just preying on a parent’s love for their child.
  • We were planning on getting our first “date” in this weekend since Brady’s been born and seeing Transformers 2 with my dad, while my mom watched Brady.  Instead, Casey wanted to try and get the sprinkler system in working order since we’ve gone almost 2 months since identifying an issue with our sprinkler system and our yard is looking pretty bad.  On the verge of death.  We’re having a thunderstorm right now so we’ll see tomorrow once things have dried up if everything is in working order or if any additional repairs need to made.  Fingers crossed everything is OK!  So hopefully we can try and see Transformers 2 this weekend!
  • Dude is back on antibiotics and anti-inflammatories again.  The cut on his tail had healed and everything was looking good until he and Stoli got into another fight last weekend.  She got his tail, he got her legs and belly – ouch!  Since the weather has warmed up and we’ve been taking them for walks, the fights have been becoming less frequent and Casey’s been able to end  them before they start.  They never attack people (a good thing) but just to alleviate any what if’s and stress, my parents have agreed to keep the dogs at their house while Justin, Robin, and Jude are here next weekend.
  • Next up, Brady has a followup echo (on her heart) Wednesday.

Pictures (and maybe video) to come…

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Road Trip

Brady made her first “road trip” today. It wasn’t really a road trip but the longest she’s been in the car ever. We left this morning at 7:30a (we got breakfast on the way too) to drive up to DIA to pick my grandma up and she slept the entire way. Her plane wasn’t arriving until 10 but knowing that she would be hungry again before getting all the way back down here, I planned it so we could park in the waiting zone and she could eat and get her diaper changed. Things ended up working out pretty perfectly and she was pretty content. Casey dropped me off at the terminal and drove around with Brady (who only squawked briefly when she saw me get out of the car before falling back to sleep again). It took about 30 minutes inside the airport for me to find where my grandma was wheeled to (she has a cell phone but she doesn’t like it or use it) and get her down to the arrivals area and loaded up. Brady was pretty fitful sleeping on the way back but didn’t start crying until we hit Monument Pass (about 20 minutes from my parent’s house). She sure did build up an appetite by the time we stopped again.

Hopefully my uncle will be taking my grandma back to the DIA when she leaves so we don’t have to do a repeat any time soon. Justin, Robin, and Jude are coming to visit us next month (!!!!) but only Casey will be able to drive to DIA and pick them up because our car won’t fit that many people especialy considering two car seats and luggage. But hopefully by her staying at home she’ll be nice and full, rested, and happy when everyone gets here!

Today Brady was having a super fussy day and crying whenever I wasn’t holding her (even if someone else was, unless she was asleep) with so many people eager to hold her but we managed to make it through. She’s been asleep in her crib for close to an hour now. Here’s hoping for another good night! Last night, she did wake up once after I laid her down but I was able to get her back to sleep by rubbing her head. She ended up sleeping a full 9 hours and I ended up waking her up since she needed to eat before we left.

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Update

Friday, I called the pediatrician back to update her on Brady.  She said Brady’s urine culture came back negative for infection.  I’m always full of questions whenever I talk to her so I had plenty to ask.  I asked if we were doing Brady a disservice by writing her fussiness off to colic.  She said that she really didn’t know what else to make of her fussiness because she couldn’t find anything wrong with her medically.  I guess she didn’t think that blood work would indicate anything and she said she honestly had no clue what she’d try and look for.  The pedi said that she was glad that Brady can be consoled when she gets fussy and that she’d be really worried if Casey and I weren’t able to console her because that might indicate meningitis or something along those lines.  I asked if it was possible that Brady’s reflux meds were no longer working for her and making her more uncomfortable since her dose was calculated for a lower weight.  She did the calculation and was able to up her dose to 1.7ml twice a day and that seems to be working.  She said it’s possible that the reflux is more of a problem than we think since her reflux went from silent to not-so-silent (on some days) and that we could discuss getting an upper GI ordered for her.  She asked me to call back on Tuesday afternoon and we’d discuss things again.

I called and left a message for her and she called me back this afternoon.  I told her that Brady was still fussy but seemed to be over the tummy bug so no more throwing up.  Casey and I have been talking with each other and other friends and family wondering if it was possible that someone so young could be just spoiled.  I asked her if Brady could possibly be spoiled since she will only cry and get fussy (most of the time) if she’s not being held (primarily by me).  She said it’s possible but Brady was a little young for it since it usually starts at 6 months (which she’ll be next week) and this has been going on for over a month now, but that colic would fit too if it weren’t she was too old for that.  So we talked some more and we’re going to hold off on doing the upper GI for now, unless she thinks doing it would be more worthwhile than just spending money on medicine that Brady may not need or needs more of.  I’m going to have to work on putting Brady down more when she’s sleeping instead of just holding her, letting her cry sometimes when there’s nothing wrong with her (*not* crying it out though) and just trying to establish more of a routine with her.  She’s so used to getting everything she wants at the first grunt or sound of fussiness that she’s just become conditioned that when she does this, I’ll pick her up.  It’s so sad to listen to her crying but I know this is something we need to start working on now before it gets worse.

Hopefully with this new routine I can get her back to sleeping in her own bed again.  I never wanted to do co-sleeping but somehow with the reflux and then with her tummy bug she’s wound up in our bed all night.  Now that the tummy bug has run it’s course she’s so used to sleeping with us I’m having a HARD time getting her to sleep in her bed.  I put her down four different times last night before finally giving up and letting her sleep on me.  I put her down at 9:50 and she woke up as I was laying her down and softly fussed a little but only for about 5-10 minutes.  I don’t know if she’s just so tired from me putting her down everytime she’s asleep (because she invariably woke up) or if turning on her Twilight Sea Turtle and her Woombie (stuffed bear that makes womb sounds) did the trick.  I’m hoping she’ll start sleeping through the night in her crib again now!

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Appointment Update

We took Brady back to the doctor again yesterday because things weren’t getting any better. Long story short, they still don’t know what’s wrong with her. They tested her for a UTI (had to cath her :(, which came back negative but they sent it off for a culture as well. Brady’s pediatrician consulted with another doctor in the practice and they have three theories. One is that the tummy bug she might have had isn’t completely gone yet. Number two is that she is lactose intolerant (like I have suspected) and my recent foray back into the land of milkshakes has upset her (although this has been going on longer than I’ve had a milkshake, just has gotten more extreme since). And number three is colic – meaning they don’t know. Apparently colic is assigned as a last ditch diagnosis when nothing else fits medically. I’ve already gone back off the dairy and the caffeine too just for good measure. I’m not ready to accept colic as the cause yet (1) because she’s too old for it – if she had colic it would have started earlier and she would already be over it by this point, (2) because I think more needs to be done (blood tests and upper GI were mentioned casually), and (3) it’s possible her medicine (Prilosec compound) isn’t working for her anymore and we need to move on to something else or increase her dosage.

The pediatrician asked me to call her back tomorrow and let her know how Brady’s doing. I’m pretty sure that the answer is going to be the same as it has been. Hopefully we can get some sort of game plan worked out so we can get her on the road to feeling better and being a happier baby!

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Dates

So I usually make my posts late at night after Brady’s asleep. I think this is causing some confusion when I post because I’ll say tomorrow and it will technically be the day that I am posting on, but since I haven’t fallen asleep yet, I don’t consider it to be that next day yet.

I took Brady to the doctor yesterday to get her checked out. Her usual pediatrician was out and because of the short notice it was either the P.A. or a doctor that I don’t really care for. P.A. it was and I really liked her so it all worked out. Brady weighed in at 15 pounds 2.5 ounces! I think she’ll definitely be in the 50th percentile (for her weight at least) by 6 months! When I told the P.A. Brady’s symptoms, she told me later that the two things that automatically came to her mind were ear infection or tummy bug (stomach flu, not related to influenza). Brady looked perfect except for the excessive fussiness that I told her about (and she witnessed), some vomiting that she had over the weekend, and hearing/feeling bubbles in her tummy. She consulted with the other P.A. in the office and apparently some sort of tummy bug is making the rounds in breastfed babies. She said we were going to go ahead and assume that’s what it is and let it runs it’s course in 24-48 and hope that the worst was over. I guess there’s nothing really you can do for the stomach bug but she said I could give Brady some Tylenol if it made her feel better and that Mylicon was likely to be ineffective. Well here we are almost 48 hours later and no improvement. She had already stopped vomiting when I took her in (that stopped Sunday) but her fussiness is still running pretty high and she seems to be pretty uncomfortable at times and I still hear the bubbles. I’m praying that after a good night’s sleep, Brady will be feeling better but if she’s not I fear blood work is going to be ordered to figure out what’s going on with her. I just really want for her to feel better and I know she’s not being fussy on purpose.

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Meltdown

So for the last four days Brady has been super fussy but the last two days she’s had at least one complete meltdown each day. It is not pretty. Unfortunately both of them occurred away from home, but fortunately it was in the car and not around other people. It breaks my heart to hear her scream and cry like that and just be inconsolable. This extreme fussiness and (as of today) *frequent* spit ups, has forced me to schedule her for a pediatrician visit tomorrow. I’d rather just go in and be told it’s nothing and just a “normal” baby thing than risk something being wrong with her medically. I want my sweet, happy (for the most part) baby back!

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Saturday Outing

Brady’s been trying to stand up by herself more lately, so we went to Babies R Us to get a new jumper for her.  We ended up getting a jumperoo that matches her activity gym and gets really great reviews.  She’s just a tad short for it – she can bounce off the floor with her big toes – so for now we have some books underneath to prop her up a little.  Even with her fussiness, she seemed to enjoy the jumperoo so it seems lke a good investment. Here’s some pics from her non-fussy periods today.

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23 weeks

Some super cute (aren’t they all?) pics from this week!

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21-22 week pics

I uploaded these to the site last weekend and somehow as I was getting ready to post more I just now realized it.  Better late than never.

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Big Girl “Bed”

Today will be Brady’s first night in her big girl “bed”. I say “bed” because we’re still using the pack n’ play, we’re just pretty sure Brady’s past the weight limit of 15 pounds for the bassinet feature. So to be on the safe side we went ahead and moved the mattress into the traditional position at the bottom. When it was at the bassinet level there was a bumper that was flush against the sides that blocked a lot of light from getting in. I’ve got my fingers crossed the extra light being let in by the mesh sides doesn’t bother her. And hopefully we’ll be able to get Brady a proper crib when we find out our time frame for moving (you hear that Cadbury – our baby needs a bed).

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